Strategies for Building a Strong Case in a Contested Divorce

By Columbia Family Law Center
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Washington’s divorce law sets the structure for how courts make decisions, but the strength of a case often comes down to preparation and strategy. By approaching each stage with care, clients can build persuasive arguments that protect their rights and position them for favorable outcomes.

At Columbia Family Law Center, we work closely with individuals facing contested divorces in Washington. These cases often involve disagreements about custody, property division, or financial support, and they can feel overwhelming without a clear plan. 

Contested Divorce in Washington

A contested divorce occurs when spouses can’t agree on one or more significant issues, such as child custody, spousal maintenance, or the division of marital assets. Under Washington divorce law, a judge steps in to resolve these disputes if a settlement can’t be reached. 

Because the court has broad discretion, it’s critical to present thorough evidence and arguments that align with legal standards. We understand how to apply divorce law to the facts of each case, giving our clients the best chance at achieving fair results.

Unlike uncontested divorces, which can be finalized more quickly, contested divorces involve discovery, hearings, and sometimes a trial. 

This process requires clear strategies to present testimony, documents, and legal reasoning in a way that resonates with the court. While every case is unique, there are common approaches that can strengthen a client’s position.

The Importance of Preparation

One of the most important elements in any contested divorce is preparation. Washington courts rely on facts, not speculation, which means evidence must be carefully gathered and presented. 

We often begin by reviewing financial records, communications, and past court orders to identify the materials that will carry the most weight under divorce law. By doing this early, we can anticipate potential challenges and craft responses that protect our client’s interests.

Thorough preparation also enables us to advise clients on reasonable expectations. For example, Washington divorce law requires property to be divided in a manner that is just and equitable. 

That doesn’t always mean a 50-50 split, but it does mean the court will consider contributions of each spouse, both financial and non-financial. Understanding how the law applies to the facts of a case allows us to give clients realistic guidance about possible outcomes.

Key Strategies for a Strong Case

To give our clients the best chance of success, we rely on several strategies that have proven effective in contested divorces. While every situation is different, these steps provide a strong foundation:

  1. Gather and organize evidence early: Financial documents, communications, and witness testimony are most effective when collected and analyzed well before trial.

  2. Establish clear goals: Clients need to know what issues matter most to them, whether that is custody arrangements, financial security, or retaining specific assets.

  3. Use Washington divorce law as a structure: Building arguments around the statutory factors the court must consider keeps the case focused on relevant legal issues.

  4. Highlight contributions and sacrifices: Non-financial contributions, such as child care and household management, carry weight under divorce law and shouldn’t be overlooked.

  5. Prepare for credibility assessments: Judges often weigh credibility heavily. Consistency and honesty in testimony and documents are critical.

Each of these strategies helps create a well-supported case that addresses both the facts and the law.

Custody Disputes and the Best Interests Standard

When custody is disputed, Washington divorce law requires courts to focus on the best interests of the child. This means the court will consider factors such as the child’s relationship with each parent, each parent’s ability to provide stability, and the child’s adjustment to home, school, and community.

We work with clients to gather records, such as school reports, medical information, and testimony from individuals familiar with the child’s life. Demonstrating involvement and stability is often persuasive to the court. By aligning arguments with the statutory standard, we strengthen our client’s case and protect the child’s well-being.

Financial Considerations in Contested Divorces

Financial disputes are another major source of conflict. Property division, debt allocation, and spousal maintenance are all governed by divorce law in Washington. Courts aim to reach equitable solutions, but the evidence presented can heavily influence outcomes.

We help clients document income, assets, and debts with precision. In some cases, forensic accountants may be used to uncover hidden assets or clarify nuanced financial arrangements. 

Washington divorce law also considers the earning capacity of each spouse, so presenting information about employment history, education, and future opportunities is often critical.

By thoroughly preparing financial records, we help clients present clear, reliable information that supports their claims. This approach not only strengthens the case but also helps prevent surprises during the discovery process or trial.

What to Know About Spousal Maintenance

Spousal maintenance, sometimes referred to as alimony, is often a contested issue. Under Washington divorce law, courts consider several factors, including the financial resources of each spouse, the length of the marriage, the standard of living established, and the time needed for one spouse to gain education or training.

When representing a client seeking maintenance, we focus on demonstrating financial need and the other spouse’s ability to pay. When representing the paying spouse, we emphasize fairness and the importance of self-sufficiency. In both cases, we apply the statutory factors to present arguments that are balanced and persuasive.

Using Discovery Effectively

Discovery is the stage where both parties exchange information. It’s a powerful tool in contested divorces, allowing us to request documents, submit interrogatories, and conduct depositions.  Discovery is especially important under Washington divorce law because it confirms that both parties have access to the information needed for a fair resolution.

We use discovery not only to gather evidence but also to test the credibility of the other party. Inconsistencies between testimony and documents can weaken the opposing case significantly. A strong discovery process provides the foundation for building effective cross-examinations and closing arguments at trial.

Preparing for Trial

If a settlement can’t be reached, a trial becomes necessary. In these situations, preparation and strategy are essential. Washington judges expect clear, organized presentations that focus on the law and the facts. At Columbia Family Law Center, we work with clients to prepare testimony, exhibits, and arguments that tell a coherent story.

Trial preparation involves anticipating challenges from the other side and crafting responses that address them directly. We also rehearse with clients to help them feel comfortable and confident while testifying. Because credibility is such an important factor in court, the way a client presents themselves can have a significant impact.

Settlement as a Strategic Option

While contested divorces often go to trial, settlement remains a possibility throughout the process. Divorce law in Washington encourages parties to resolve disputes outside of court when possible. Mediation and negotiations can provide more control over the outcome and reduce the stress of litigation.

We encourage clients to consider settlement when it serves their best interests. However, we also prepare every case as though it will go to trial. This dual approach confirms that if settlement fails, we’re ready to present a strong case in court.

Why Strategy Matters

Contested divorces are challenging, but a well-prepared case grounded in divorce law can make all the difference. Courts have wide discretion, and outcomes depend heavily on the quality of the evidence and arguments presented. 

At Columbia Family Law Center, we know that strategy isn’t just about legal knowledge but about applying the law to the unique facts of each case.

We help clients focus on their priorities, gather persuasive evidence, and present arguments that align with Washington divorce law. By doing so, we give them a strong foundation for protecting their rights and achieving fair outcomes.

Give Us a Call

Building a strong case in a contested divorce requires preparation, evidence, and strategy. Washington divorce law provides the structure, but the way a case is presented often determines the result. 

At Columbia Family Law Center, we take pride in helping clients approach contested divorces with clarity and purpose. Whether the issues involve custody, property, or financial support, we work diligently to build cases that protect our clients’ futures. We’re proud to serve clients in Federal Way, Tacoma, and Bellevue, Washington. Call today.